You have heard the phrase, „Be careful what you wish for. Before you cast a spell, remember the Three fold Law and ask yourself these four very important questions: 1. Is it necessary? Have you tried everything in the physical world to make this dream come true? In other words, if you want to be an actress, have you taken any acting classes, signed up for drama, or even studied movies and plays? You need to make the first attempt. Magick that is performed primarily for the sake of boosting your ego will have little power. Second, you have to ask for what you want. Yes, it is that simple. Sometimes our angels or guides are just waiting in the wings to be asked. Then you must sit still, be quiet, and meditate. Listen for the small still voice nudging you in one direction or another. 2. Is it what you really need? You may need a true friend, but you may be caught up in the belief that only the most popular girl or guy should be your best friend otherwise, your dream has not really come true. Imagine what your dream come true will feel like, not an exact shape or appearance of your wish. A true friend is loyal, compassionate, and available anyone can be this, but if it is a particular image you want to have, this may not be for your highest good. Ending spells, prayers, or affirmations by saying „This or better‰ is a great idea. 3. Will it harm anyone, including yourself? This follows the number one rule of Wicca: Harm to none. Sometimes it is necessary to experience hurt before a need can be met. It hurts to discover you are being shallow, but as you cast off unhelpful aspects of yourself, like a snake shedding its skin, your spells will manifest more smoothly and more quickly. 4. Are you willing to own the responsibilities of the results? Once you have asked the forces of the Universe to shake, rattle, and roll so you can achieve your wish, you must accept the form Spirit has decided will best fit your need. It is like shaking a tree to get the leaves to fall; you cannot determine where they land, only the intent and energy you put behind your action. Remember, in Spirit anything is possible, including those things we cannot conceive.